OK. I need ya'lls help.  Any suggestions at all would be helpful.  And as much as I'd like to put my 'problems' 6 foot under, I'm the only parent that my daughter has in her life. 

Here's my problem:

My first husband ( also refered to as my daughter's sperm donor) & I are suppossed to have joint custody with the whole shared parenting thing. You know, every other weekend & all that.  Well, not once in the last 9 years has he made any mention of her spending a weekend with him or even so much as taking her to the park.  He pays his child support every week as long as he works.  I don't have a problem with him coming to see her as long as he gets a hold of me first to find out if we're even going to be home.  I've never denied him visitation.  Even though I'd be in the right to do so since he threatens to kill himself at least once a year.  Usually after I tell him in no uncertain terms that there will never be anything more between us than our daughter.  He cannot seem to take no for an answer.  He has even went as far as to try & get people to tell my boyfriend that I'm cheating on him.  His mother is now trying to get things started.  She informed a friend of mine today that she knows for a fact that my child has head lice & that my boyfriend is touching her inapproprriatly.  My mother checked my daughter's head today & the head of the little girl that she keeps.  Neither one of them has lice.  And just because my boyfriend was accused of something years ago ( Just for the record, it was a lie but the judge chose to believe 5 women over 1 man.) does not mean anything.  I am pissed to the point of tears.  I cannot think straight.  I need some help with a binding spell to stop them.  As I said earlier, any suggestions would be helpful.  After 9 years of him & now his mother, I'm fed up.  I'm tired.  I'm done.  I told him today that if I hear of one more thing they have said that is untrue, I will be filing charges for slander & harrassment.

Please help.

May the Goddess guide you in light & in love.